is it a kind of dream?

Good for you, and good luck with the lil 'un. It must be distressing to suspect that your kid is not "normal," but at least you have your eyes open and are willing to do something about it! A good friend of mine has a nephew who is nearly seven now, and very likely autistic, however the parents have been completely unwilling to recognize there's a problem (he's just a "late bloomer"), despite the urgings of himself and others to get him help. :(