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posted by [personal profile] leoniedelt at 01:58pm on 04/09/2007 under , ,
Pumpkin has just finished with the child development clinic, day 2.

Pumpkin has semantic-pragmatic disorder, as defined by the speech-language pathologist today, who said she is definitely on the spectrum and was talking high functioning autism.

We'll have a big meeting on 18 Sept in the morning, with all the professionals she's just seen these last two mornings, and pool the information into one big report, which we can then take to schools and make sure that they can help her when she gets there.

She has problems understanding the nuances of what is said to her, she has social impairments (ie she cannot understand what kids are doing or why, or indeed relate to kids at all), and she has little/no imagination, cant imagine people or relate to them.

Every professional we've talked to AGREED with us today. We were gobsmacked, stunned really, at how receptive they were, instead of being fobbed off as we have been for so long by health visitors etc, told pumpkin was normal, etc. The CDC didnt think she was normal, oh no.

*aims this at the entire planet Earth*

I FUCKING TOLD YOU SO!

I've been saying it for 3+ years, the kid is autistic. I've known it from birth - she was never 'normal.' She's 'disabled.' She's 'special.' She's different.

My god, the relief and vindication are almost palpable.
Mood:: 'shocked' shocked
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posted by [identity profile] alawston.livejournal.com at 03:14pm on 04/09/2007
I remember teaching a lad with semantic-pragmatic disorder. Basically a nice kid, maybe a little isolated from the class, and quite a flair for picking up vocabulary - something a lack of imagination probably helps with, in all honesty.

He did have a weird fondness for Jean-Michel Jarre though, I'd keep an eye out for that if I were you...
 
posted by [identity profile] leoniedelt.livejournal.com at 04:17pm on 04/09/2007
Oh FUCK ME - better half was listening to that *shite* today on the 'puter between dropping pumpkin off and picking her p from school...

What the SLP said today was that she's not qualified to make the *medical* diagnosis of HFA, she's only qualified to diagnose the speech aspect, which was semantic pragmatic disorder. She said it may fall into the bigger picture of HFA, but she can only do her part of it - the rest will do their parts, and they'll all come together on the morning of the 18th Sept, and paint a clearer picture for all of us, so we'll walk away with an answer.

Likely it will come away as HFA, not just semantic-pragmatic.

Pumpkin could use 'confiscated' in a sentence at age 2, ffs...
 
posted by [identity profile] happydalek.livejournal.com at 05:39pm on 04/09/2007
Well, a big vocabulary is certainly a plus! ;) And at least you've got some experience with HFA, right? Like the old saying goes, "Better the enemy you know..."

I'm glad you guys are finally getting some answers, especially while the munchkin is still plenty young and able to benefit from therapy. Let's hear it for unique brain chemistry.
 
posted by [identity profile] leoniedelt.livejournal.com at 05:44pm on 04/09/2007
Since better half has been suspected HFA/AS for a long time, we're just waiting on the NHS to finally prove it, we know quite a bit about it.

I dont stray too far from the Asperger's diagnostic criteria myself.

I'll post again in 2 weeks when we finally get a written explanation of everything they found and what its final official name is, but it looks like it'll probably be HFA.

Thanks Happy. My f-list's support has been priceless.
 
posted by [identity profile] adrian-middle.livejournal.com at 08:35pm on 04/09/2007
Vindication is always good news. My daughter's little half-sister (she'll kill me for saying that) has a form of autism and, quite frankly, the idea of the authorities denying such conditions appalls me.

Go you.
 
posted by [identity profile] leoniedelt.livejournal.com at 08:49pm on 04/09/2007
Thanks, love. The HVs and GPs have been consistently denying anything's up, telling us we're full of shit, so this is indeed a vindication, oh yes.
 
posted by [identity profile] hergrace.livejournal.com at 03:51am on 05/09/2007
*hugs* to you all. So finally you can get on track helping her out. At last!
 
posted by [identity profile] leoniedelt.livejournal.com at 05:45am on 05/09/2007
Once the 18th comes and we have our big meeting, we can put to them that we think she fits the criteria for HFA even moreso than just semantic pragmatic because the social side of pumpkin is still impaired, as well as the imaginative side, and together with semantic pragmatic, those are the 'triad of impairments' that define HFA.

Plus HFA will be a much more useful label to have because people have heard of it - no one's heard of semantic pragmatic, at least not in the benefits agency. If they label her HFA, then she can get financial help which we cn use to send her to the gym class they recommend to help her weird gait and unstability on her feet and inability to pedal a trike.

Soooooo, yes, we're on the road to getting help! AT LAST! Horray for the NHS doing their jobs for a change, eh? :)

Thanks so much for your support. There's a reason parenting her has been so hard, so intense. Thank god someone else recognises it.
 
posted by [identity profile] gorkonslady.livejournal.com at 12:22pm on 05/09/2007
I´m sorry for you, really. Hopefully you and your better half are able to get help for Pumpkin.
 
posted by [identity profile] leoniedelt.livejournal.com at 03:28pm on 05/09/2007
Thanks - i'm sure we're on the right track now, making the right connections with people, etc.

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] gorkonslady.livejournal.com at 11:16am on 06/09/2007
Don´t worry. Pumpkin will be all right. I know, it´s horrifying, when the own kids are getting ill or anything isn´t ok with them. You cannot sleep, you are nervous the whole day a.s.o. My little Junior has got his first surgery, when he was 1 1/2 years old! Do you imagine, how i felt?

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